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September 25, 2024

This week’s theme: support

I’m sitting here reflecting on the depth of care and complexity involved in supporting our loved ones, especially when it comes to end-of-life choices.

Earlier today, I had a session where a client was struggling with their partner’s role as a caregiver for an aging parent.

It brought up a powerful question: Was there an agreement, or was this role just assumed?

The difference between a caregiver and an adult child is often blurred, but they’re not the same.

Being mindful of these distinctions can help ease the load and maintain healthy boundaries, honoring everyone's emotional and physical capacities.

Supporting each other doesn't mean always doing what’s expected; it means honoring the autonomy and decisions of those we love, even if that decision challenges us.

In my latest video, I shared thoughts on Voluntary Stopping of Eating and Drinking (VSED) as a decision some make to end their life with dignity. While not every decision is this drastic, it highlights a broader truth: support sometimes looks like letting go, stepping back, and honoring someone’s right to choose their path.

How are you showing up to support those you love? What feelings come up when faced with these kinds of decisions? I’d love to hear from you.

I share more on this in this week’s blog.

Want to walk through it together? Book a free consultation call with me. Whether it’s having a listening ear or how to cope with it, I’ve got you.

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P.S. Please share this newsletter with friends and family who might benefit from these insights. Let’s create a community where we support each other in living life fully and embracing the gift of each moment.

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Much love,

Beth

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Supporting Autonomy: Honoring Your Loved One’s Choices at the End of Life

When it comes to supporting our loved ones, it’s easy to default to what we think is best for them. Whether it’s deciding on caregiving roles, healthcare choices, or even end-of-life plans, we often fall into the trap of assuming we know what’s right.

But true support means honoring their autonomy — their ability to make decisions for themselves — even when those decisions challenge our own comfort.

If you have more questions or need guidance on this journey, don't hesitate to reach out. I’m here to support you every step of the way.

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